I am writing this piece to you with a broken heart. I met this guy some six months ago and since then, my world has been changed and I’ve been lost to the love this guy showered on me. However, our story has changed recently as he started showing some attitudes. It all started when he pestered me on giving him sex and I resisted it vehemently. Apart from that, he has been good, loving and caring. What gives me headache most now is that I am in my late 20s and I am afraid of losing him. Should I defile the bed before marriage and keep him or call it a day with him and keep my virginity?
This issue should not bother you and it should not bring you to crossroads at all. I understand the fact that it seems you’re running out of age. But if I may ask, what is the essence of keeping yourself since these days and losing it at this point in time due to pestering from a man you met just some six months ago? Let me leave you with these pieces of advice; if you so much cherish your virginity, then, tell him to wait or go. Also, since you said you’re in your late 20s, you’re ripe for marriage, you can just make preparations and do the wedding to call off the temptation of falling before the special night. But sincerely, losing your virginity before the D-day is not advisable at all, considering how long you’ve waited. And if he truly loves you, no matter how long, just discuss with him and he will wait. Truth be told, Tola, if he can’t wait, that is not true love and it would be better you call it day. I wish you all the best in life as you take the final decision.
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