Frequently, ladies do complain that, how do they know if a man truly loves them. Ironically, this question looks complex but has a simple answer. Simply put, a man who truly loves you will walk on waters and climb mountains just for your sake, not minding your behaviour; the crazy things you’ve done, no matter the time of demand.
If you are his woman, he won’t be tired of speaking with you; he would talk to you until he exhausts all the words on his tongue. He is there for you at the moments of depression and serves as the beam of hope when it seems all is lost. To surmise this, a man who truly loves you bears with you at all times. He sees your joy as his and vice versa. Your real man avails you of his arms when you are sick and gives you his jaws when you’re up.
In the same vein, if you are her man, and she loves you dearly, she will shine you up when you’re dusty; encourage you when you’re down, defend you at all cost even if all evidence at her disposal are not convincing to her herself. She hangs on every word of yours! She listens to you even if what you’re saying is not worth paying attention to. Let me gossip at this point, dear guys, all these I’ve told you are what ladies also want from you; ladies cherish affection, care and love- their life revolves round these attributes!
How do you know if he truly loves you?
First, he professes his love for you. If he loves you, he is willing to tell you, anybody and everybody. He simply says, ‘look, man, this is my lady.’ He goes further to give you a title. This means he must confess his love for you to everybody. This shows he’s proud of being with you and he has plans for you.
Also, he introduces you to all friends and close relatives, if he fails to do that, consider your stance on his love you; he does not fix your picture in his future. But the minute he assigns a title to you; the moment he lays claim to you in the presence of all who are invaluable to him, then, you know the man is really serious about you.
A man who truly loves you will provide for you. He will bring that money for you to make sure that you have what you need. He will not lavish his assets on trivial things and come to you with loads of excuses, neither will he selfishly give you meagre amount that will not cater for your needs. A man who truly loves you will never make you ask for money for necessities except in exceptional cases, he will see it as his responsibilities. He responsibly satisfies you!
Let me tell you, dear ladies, that there are different ways to provide for one’s needs apart from monetary provisions. Your man could be broke, but he does everything within his means to meet your needs in some other reasonable and valuable ways. He may not be able to give you money to get your present needs, but he could surprise you at the moment. A man who truly loves you goes beyond borders to please you.
He protects you. He will do anything to protect you, he can protect you in other ways, whether through pieces of
advice, or stepping out to perform a task that seems too threatening for you to do.
In summary, ladies, stop being doubting Thomases. If you’ve got a man or guy, who does things for you, trust me, he’s all in!
ADESIYAN OLAYIWOLA OMOKEHINDE is a high school student. She resides in Ibadan and loves scribbling on relationship.